Eco-Friendly Sunglasses You Need For Hawaii

Eco-Friendly Sunglasses You Need For Hawaii

eco-friendly sunglasses from Lani Shades
Image from Lani Shades Website

I’m always on the lookout for eco-friendly options, but I never knew there was a thing as eco-friendly sunglasses! This is a great alternative for anyone who loves to be outside, wants a durable pair of sunglasses, and likes to go the eco-friendly route with product purchases.

Lani Shades reached out to me recently and I was so impressed by their company, values, and mindset that I decided to write a little article about them to share with my readers.

So if you’re looking for a pair of eco-friendly sunglasses, keep reading and I’ll share all the details with you!

Eco-friendly sunglasses

What is Lani Shades?

Lani Shades is a Hawaii based wood sunglasses company launched in 2019 out of Sail Hawaii, a sailing school. The creators wanted a pair of sunglasses that would help them look towards the sun when trimming the sails, or dull the sun’s glare on the water to watch for reefs.

The solution to their problem? Eco-friendly sunglasses.

They created a pair of shades that would float when falling into the water (because how many of us have dropped our sunglasses in the water? 🙋🏽‍♀️). Even if you weren’t able to get your sunglasses out of the water, the shades would eventually decompose. Made of natural wood and TAC, these shades shouldn’t contribute to the problem of plastic pollution throughout the ocean and on beaches.

Ok, but how are these eco-friendly sunglasses?

The Lani Shades website has the complete breakdown of the sunglasses, but here are the basics:

-The frames are made from wood. Lani Shades has different collections using three types of wood. The gist is that when the sunglasses fall into the water, they float. The wood is a perfect, natural option that looks stylish, is durable, light, and floats. The wood frames are made in China, but the website specifically says that each one is handmade by a craftsman.

I always take caution in buying anything from China. But I feel a little better knowing that this company most likely supports a small group of handcrafters in China, as opposed to large corporations. Read more about the frames here.

-The lenses: This is where things get pretty technical. The lenses are made from TAC, which is an organic biodegradable polymer film. The TAC lenses could be considered plastic, so Lani Shades has a plan for that too. When your sunglasses reach the end of their life, you can send them back to Lani Shades. They repurpose the lenses, meaning less waste in the ocean. Meanwhile, you get 25% off your next pair of sunglasses from Lani Shades. Win win. Read more about the lenses here.

What is the company doing to give back?

You all know I love the word kuleana. I have a whole post dedicated to it. I also wrote a chapter about it in my book, “Aloha State of Mind.” Kuleana is “responsibility,” and Lani Shades takes their responsibility to care for the ‘aina very seriously.

Lani Shades supports “One Tree Planted.” For each pair of sunglasses sold, Lani Shades donates to have a tree planted.

Another thing I love about this company is that they try to keep things local. Instead of selling through big corporations and businesses like Amazon, they sell their products in local boutiques, craft markets, and through their online website. This ensures that Lani Shades can keep their prices lower and offer discounts to their customers.

If you’re like me and love supporting small, local businesses, Lani Shades is definitely the way to go.

Where can I get a pair?

Order a pair at the Lani Shades website or visit their store at Waikiki.

What is my honest review of the Lani Shades sunglasses?

I have yet to receive my pair in the mail. When I do receive and try it out, I will update this article with my honest review and photographs. So far I am very impressed with the values of Lani Shades to stay eco-friendly and make as little of an impact on the environment as possible. A lot of thought and detail has been put into every aspect of the Lani Shades sunglasses, from creation to marketing and selling.

I look forward to sharing my insights and photos with you. Please stay tuned!

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Introductory Hawaiian Phrases You Need to Know

Introductory Hawaiian Phrases You Need to Know

Hawaiian Introductory Phrases

Do you want to learn some Hawaiian introductory phrases, like “my name is” or “how are you?” This list will get you started on the journey to learning simple Hawaiian. While you don’t have to learn the Hawaiian language to be able to communicate on the islands, it is helpful to know a few of the most common Hawaiian introductory phrases, especially for introductions. Let’s dive in!

Aloha

Hello, goodbye, I love you.

Pehea ‘oe?

How are you?

‘O wai kou inoa?

What is your name?

‘O ____(name) ko’u inoa.

My name is ____.

Nohea mai ‘oe?

Where are you from?

No ____ au.

I am from ____

‘Ehia ou makahiki?

How old are you?

He ___ (number) au makahiki.

I am ___ years old.

Pololi ‘oe?

Are you hungry?

‘Ae.

Yes.

A’ole.

No.

Makemake ‘oe i ka ___ (activity)?

Do you like to ____?

E kala mai!

Excuse me, forgive me, I’m sorry.

A hui hou.

Goodbye.

Iesu pu.

Jesus be with you.

Akua pu.

God be with you.

I hope this list helps you as you introduce yourself to someone who speaks fluent Hawaiian. It’s always good to practice the words aloud. If you want to know what kind of resource are out there to learn the Hawaiian language, I suggest checking out my article below:

Resources to learn the Hawaiian Language

If you are interested in reading books set in ancient Hawaiian culture and islands, check out my books on Amazon or at other stores here.

The more you practice Hawaiian, the easier it is to recognize and differentiate words. Historians have said that the Hawaiian language often sounds and looks like a lot of vowel sounds. I encourage you to listen to music in the Hawaiian language, chants, or even audiobooks because it will help you make out distinct words and phrases. There are plenty of options out there for you to learn, listen, and read Hawaiian.

Mahalo for learning some introductory Hawaiian phrases with me. I hope you will also check out the following articles about Hawaiian words:

Hawaiian cosmo words

Hawaiian water words

Marine Animals and Life

Plants in Hawaii

Did I miss any?

Do you know some introductory Hawaiian phrases? Let us know in the comments below. Mahalo! 🙂

Everything You Need to Know About Lanai Island

Everything You Need to Know About Lanai Island

Lanai Island

Lanai Island. Have you ever been? Also known as the Pineapple Isle, Lanai island is the home of some iconic places like Sweetheart Rock, Garden of the Gods, and Shipwreck Beach. It houses one of the most expensive resorts in Hawaii and 98% of the island is owned by Larry Ellison, founder of Oracle. He bought most of the island, including the Four Seasons hotels, for $300 million dollars. The hotel was renovated and made into the luxury resort that it is today. 

I have been doing a lot of research about the island of Lanai, as I’m writing a retelling of a Hawaiian legend that took place on Lanai. While the popular folklore of Lanai is Pu’u Pehe, or Sweetheart Rock, there’s another known tale, shared by King Kalakaua in his book, “Legends of Hawaii.” The story of Ka’ala, the flower of Lanai, is not as well known, but a story that I think deserves to be told nonetheless. 

If you want to read the first book in my Hawaiian fairy tale and folklore retelling collection, check out Lehua

Since I’ve never been to Lanai, I knew I had to do as much research as possible. And, maybe one day if I’m lucky, I’ll get to visit the island. 🙂 This article includes everything you need to know about Lanai, it’s name, history, iconic things to do and places to see, and little known facts that I found along the way! I hope you enjoy! 

Image of Lanai
This is a “lanai,” like a porch or veranda, but we’re talking about the island Lanai in this article!

Is it Lanai or Lāna’i? 

The correct spelling is Lāna’i, and nobody really knows where the name originated. For the purpose of ease and because “Lanai” is how the word is commonly spelled and used, I’ll be writing the name of the island as “Lanai” in this article. 

There’s a Hawaiian legend that a prince from Maui, Kaulula’au, was sent to Lanai because he pulled up a breadfruit tree and his father was displeased. Lanai had been known to have man-eating spirits but instead of getting killed by them, the prince was able to drive the man-eating spirits away.

As a reward, Kaulula’au was given the island to rule over. The island was then called “Lāna’i o Kaulula’au,” which means “day of the the conquest of Kaulula’au.” 

Today the word “Lanai” is used, instead of Lāna’i, for ease. 

Why is it called the Pineapple Island? 

For some reason, Oahu has always seemed like the pineapple island because it has pineapple fields and is home to the big tourist attraction, Dole Plantation. However, the first pineapple was planted on the island of Lanai in 1921 by Charles Dole.

So it makes sense that the island received the name! By 1930 the island of Lanai would export over 65,000 pineapples a year. Lanai produced most of the world’s pineapples. The last pineapple harvest occurred in 1992, but Lanai still keeps its name as the Pineapple Island. 

How big is Lanai? What is the ecology and geography of the island? 

Lanai is about 18 by 13 miles and was formed 1.5 million years ago by the volcano Palawai. Some parts of the island are dry and red, while other parts are lush and green.

Lanai has such a variety of landscape and ecology, it’s amazing. One second there will be high sea cliffs and the next thing there are white sandy beaches.

You’ll learn a little more about the diversity in the “Main Attractions” section of this article. 🙂 

Does Lanai have deer? Can you hunt them? 

axis deer

I talked to my mom about my research on Lanai and she mentioned it has plenty of deer. I didn’t know this so dug deeper and guess what?

The island has tons of deer!

In 1868, the country of India gifted eight axis deer to King Kamehameha V of Hawaii. Without any natural predators, the deer have multiplied over the last hundred years. It’s estimated that there are about 40,000 to 60,000 axis deer between the islands of Molokai, Maui, and Lanai.

In the fall, Lanai residents are allowed to hunt the deer for free. People who are not residents of Lanai also can register to hunt the deer. 

Check out the Hawaii Department of Land and Natural Resources for more information.

What are some interesting historical facts about Lanai? 

  • Lanai is said to be the place where cliff jumping was born. Hawaiian warriors would leap from the southeast 80-foot Kaunolu Point to prove their courage. 
  • Europeans spotted Lanai on their departure from Hawaii. Captain Clerke took charge of Captain Cook’s ship, the HMS Resolution, after Captain Cook was killed in Kealakekua Bay on February 14. Captain Clerke spotted Lanai on February 25, 1779. 
  • Before Lanai was one of the world’s biggest pineapple producers, it was owned by members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. The people started a colony and herded sheep. Walter Murray Gibson was a leader of the church at the time and helped build the colony. He got involved in fraudulent activity, paying for land with the church’s money and putting the titles in his name. He was excommunicated and members of the church moved to Laie on O’ahu, building their community and faith there. 

Do people live on Lanai? 

Yes! Lanai has a high school and elementary school, but the island has no traffic lights! About 3,200 people live on Lanai. There are three hotels and two of them are luxury resorts. 

Other random facts about Lanai

  • There are plenty of feral cats on the island, because there are no natural predators. 
  • Larry Ellison most of the island, but the rest is owned by the government. 
  • There is no public transportation on Lanai. To get there, people have to take a ferry or plane from Maui. Once on the island, visitors can rely on rental cars (or jeeps, because so much of the island is off-roading), or hotel vans to get around. 
  • The town in Lanai has local shops, art galleries, and restaurants. 
Image of Lanai from Maui
Image of Lanai from Maui island

Traveling to Lanai: How to get to Lanai, how to get around, where to stay 

  • You can get to Lanai by taking a ferry from Lahaina, Maui (it’s only about 8 miles). There are car rentals, though a jeep is advised because many of the island roads are not well developed, and many of the attractions require 4-wheel drive. 
  • There are only three places to stay in Lanai: Hotel Lanai (around $400/night), Four Seasons Resort ($1k or more a night), and Sensei Lanai ($5k or more a night). If you’re staying at one of the hotels, there is usually an air service provided to get to Lanai. All of the hotels provide shuttle services too. 
  • The island also has many tourist vans and shuttles available for visitors coming off the ferry. 
  • Many Maui tour companies, like Sail Trilogy, offer snorkeling and day experiences on Lanai, so keep an eye out for those options too. 

What are the main attractions of Lanai? 

Hulupo’e Beach 

This beautiful white sand beach is perfect for all ages. Snorkel and see the fish in the reef off the shores, and maybe you’ll even get a glimpse of the spinner dolphins in the bay. 

Hulupo’e Beach attracts people every year, as the ferries dock not far from here! If you travel to Lanai for a day, swimming at Hulupo’e beach is a great option to experience!

Sweetheart Rock (Pu’u Pehe Rock) 

Lanai Island Sweetheart Rock
Sweetheart rock on Lanai, Hawaii

The Hawaiian tale of Sweetheart Rock says that a young warrior from Lanai, Makakehau, fell in love with Pehe, from Lahaina. Makakehau loved her so much, his eyes would mist each time he saw her—hence his name, “maka,” meaning eyes, and “kehau,” meaning misty. Makakehau took Pehe to Lanai and put her in a sea cave at the base of Manale Cliffs.  

One day while Makakehau left the cave to work, a storm blew in. He dropped all of his things and ran straight for the cliff to get Pehe. Unfortunately, a strong surge had drowned Pehe. He gathered her in his arms, climbed the 80-foot cliff of the cliff rock, and buried her at the top. After he mourned, he leaped into the surf below. 

I chose to retell the story of Ka’ala of Lanai, instead of Puhe’s story. There are too many unanswered questions, like, “Why did he put her in the cave in the first place?” It seemed too controlling and overprotective for me. Also, this story is a tragedy, which is why I chose Ka’ala’s story over the Sweetheart rock story. Keep reading til the end to learn about Ka’ala’s story. 

You can reach Sweetheart rock by going southeast past Hulopoe Beach. 

Garden of the Gods 

Island of Lanai Garden of the Gods
Garden of the Gods, Lanai Island

Legend says that the formations in this garden were created by gods who dropped rocks from the sky while making their gardens. The red lava is unique and beautiful, it’s almost like walking on Mars. Is this really Lanai? Yes, it is!

The funny thing is that there’s a “Garden of the Gods” in Colorado Springs but this is a different one. 🙂

Polihua Beach 

Located at northern Lanai, you can drive here with a 4-wheel vehicle. You can also go with a tour guide to this beautiful beach. Watch the waves and water carefully, as strong winds can cause currents and dangerous swimming conditions.

Shipwreck Beach (two ships from World War II) 

Shipwreck Beach Lanai

While you can’t swim at Shipwreck beach, due to the tides and currents, it provides a unique scene of ships wrecked on the shores. Abandoned and left to rust and deteriorate overtime, the 1940s oil tanker creates a haunting yet mesmerizing scene.

Use a 4-wheel drive vehicle and drive about 30 minutes from the port to see Shipwreck beach. Please use caution when driving so your vehicle does not get stuck in the sand!

If you walk on a trail past Shipwreck beach, you will find a petroglyphs!

Read more about it here: Go Hawaii Shipwreck Beach

Lanai Culture and Heritage Center

The Lanai Culture and Heritage Center seeks to educate its visitors and community on ways to protect and care for the island. It offers historical, cultural, and artistic artifacts meaningful to the people of Lanai.

If you would like an educational experience or simply want to learn more about Lanai, check out this center.

*As of writing this article, the museum website says that the Lanai Culture & Heritage Center is closed until further notice.

Check out their website for the latest information: Lanai Culture & Heritage Center

Lanai Cat Sanctuary

If you want to snuggle with a cat, check out the Lanai Cat Sanctuary. It homes over 600 cats on 3.5 acres of land. If you love cats, this is a fun place to stop and hang out with some furry friends… and admission is free!

Check out the website here: Lanai Cat Sanctuary

Munro Trail

Maui Trail
This is actually an image of a Maui trail, because I couldn’t find any pictures of the Munro trail. Sorry! 🙁

This is a 12.8 mile hike through lush rainforests of ‘ohia lehua, eucalyptus, ironwood, and pine trees. At an elevation of 1,600 feet, you’ll get gorgeous views.

You don’t need to do the whole hike to see everything. At about 2.5 miles in, there’s a scenic lookout. Go Hawaii’s website says that on a clear day, you can see 6 Hawaiian islands. Also expect canyon views of Maunalei gulch.

The end of the trail takes you to the highest spot on Lanai, called Lanaihale, an elevation of 3,370 feet.

Manele Golf Course

Four Seasons Lanai includes the Manele Golf Course. I’d probably be at the beach all day, but if golfing is your thing, you have that option to do it at Lanai!

From what I researched, weekday prices are $350-$425.

Check out the website here for the most up-to-date prices: Manele Golf Course

Mike Carroll Gallery 

I love local artists and work, and Mike Caroll has a gorgeous gallery on Lanai. On his website, he says, “I try to capture a sense of place in my paintings.”

Hawaiians are all about finding their sense of place in the world, so I love that Carroll said this. His artwork showcases beautiful, bright colors, scenes of the beach, palm trees, and waterfalls. If you are in Lanai, definitely stop by and appreciate his artwork.

You can also order any of his work on his website!

Check it out here: Mike Carroll Gallery

Cathedral Dives 

Scuba divers love this dive! I don’t scuba dive, but I have heard neat reviews about Cathedral Dives. Look up “Cathedral Dives” in Google and admire the pictures. Light pouring in from holes in the cave create a mesmerizing underwater scene.

Experience Cathedral Dives by taking a guided tour from Maui or Lanai.

For more information, check out GoHawaii’s page about Lanai Island here.

Did I miss anything?

Let me know in the comments if you want to visit Lanai and/or if you’ve already visited. What’s your favorite thing about Lanai?

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Delicious Hawaiian Treats You Can Get on the Mainland

Delicious Hawaiian Treats You Can Get on the Mainland

hawaiian treats

Which Hawaiian treats are you craving? It’s hard not to drool a little when you see pictures of li hing gummy bears or sour worms. Or chi chi dango mochi, kulolo, or chocolate haupia pie. Hawaiian treats are seriously the best!

But if you’ve moved to the mainland, like me, you might realize that in order to get some Hawaiian treats, you sometimes have to go to Asian markets or other speciality stores because the local markets don’t have specific ingredients. Don’t worry. I’ve created this list of easy Hawaiian trets to help you satisfy that island sweet tooth. A few of the following items on the list may require some assistance from your island friends and family (or you can order items online), but most of these are treats you can make from items at your local grocery store. Enjoy!

Pineapple Upside Down Cake

I’m not sure if this counts as actually Hawaiian treats but it was my dad’s favorite so I always assumed it’s a Hawaii thing. Anyway, you can easily get a can of pineapple at your local supermarket, as well as the other ingredients like yellow cake mix, maraschino cherries, butter, and brown sugar. There are numerous recipes online but my favorite is the one where you don’t use a recipe and just pack that brown sugar and sugar on the bottom of the cake pan! Cheehoo!

Li Hing Mui Gummy Bears (or Worms or Watermelon) 

You might need someone to send up a bag of li hing mui, but once you get your hands on it, the world of sweetness is yours! Sprinkle li hing mui on gummy bears, sour watermelons, sour worms, or even pineapple to make your own Hawaiian treats at home!

Haupia Chocolate Pie 

This is surprisingly easy to make, especially if you’ve learned to do it from scratch. I like to buy the premade graham cracker crusts and make my own haupia, which is composed of coconut milk, corn starch, and sugar. The chocolate pudding mix is a breeze to make. Put that on top with some whip cream and you’re good to go. It might not taste exactly like Ted’s Bakery, but hey, it is good enough. 🙂 

Guava and Lilikoi Juice 

hawaiian treats

Did you know that you can find Guava juice at your local grocery store? It isn’t Hawaiian Sun brand–and it doesn’t really taste like Hawaiian Sun brand–but it’s guava and it’s good enough. I’ve also found Welch’s Passion Fruit drink, which tastes like heaven! (Disclaimer: My local grocery store is different from yours so it’s totally dependent on the location and availability! I wish you luck in finding tropical juice at your store though!). 

Mochi 

If you can find a box of mochi powder at your local supermarket, take advantage of it. There are numerous recipes online that will satisfy your mochi cravings. Chi chi dango can be made in the microwave while coconut mochi could be baked in the oven. If you’re ambitious like me, you might even try making mochi ice cream during the summer! 

Cocoa Rice

This is super easy to make, and it tastes just like camping trips at the beach. Remember when all your family was there and they made cocoa rice cause it fed the army? There are some really great recipes online if you never learned how to make this warm island dessert from your kupuna. Can you smell the cocoa rice, coupled with the salty sea mist? Ono. 🙂

Tapioca Pudding

Mom makes cold tapioca pudding, kind of like halo-halo. Make the tapioca, add a can of coconut milk, sweetened condensed milk, a can of fruit cocktail, a can of mandarin oranges, and, if you’re lucky like me, a can of lychee will do just the trick! 

King’s Hawaiian Sweet Bread

Most stores carry this, but you’re probably going to have to pay the price for it. I can say, however, that it is worth it to buy, especially if you’re craving it. I can’t count how many times I walked past it in the store and thought to myself, Come on Lei, just get it. So just reward yourself sometimes! King’s Hawaiian Sweet bread never disappoints and tastes just like home! 

Pani Popo 

I absolutely love pani popo. When I lived in the Philippines, I’d take advantage of making this, because it was so easy to make and tasted just like home. Also, if you’re not into making rolls (like me), then you can buy rolls ready-to-make (in the freezer section) or use sweet rolls (King’s Hawaiian can even work for this but if you’re like me, you’d rather save that to eat by itself). 

Fruit

If you’re absolutely dying for the sweet island flavor, then just buy some tropical fruit. I’ve found it so helpful (emotionally, mentally, and physically) to reward myself with some local fruits. They’re probably going to be expensive, which is why I call it a reward, but you should treat yourself to a mango here and there, or, if you’re ambitious, a pineapple. If you don’t have either of those things at your local supermarket, then try sprinkling some li hing mui on your apples or oranges. That always brings the taste of home back.

Dried Tropical Fruit 

Dried mango is one of my favorites, especially because there’s usually an option for this anywhere you go. 

Bananas 

If you have some bananas, there are numerous ways to prepare them and satisfy cravings. If you’re Hawaiian, banana bread tastes so much like family. If you’re Filipino, make some banana lumpia (although you might have a tad bit of difficulty finding the wraps). If you’re Samoan, make suafa’i by boiling them, adding some tapioca and coconut milk, and sticking it in the oven (I LOVED when my mom made this–can you taste it now? Mmmmm). And if you just want to feel like a surfer, then make some banana pancakes and sing Jack Johnson’s “Banana Pancakes.” 

Don’t get discouraged if you want Hawaiian desserts but moved away from Hawaii 🙂

There are so many delicious local foods you can make while on the mainland. I know that when I first moved, I felt like I had access to nothing. But, as I learned where to look (besides the Asian aisle–did you know they have coconut milk in the baking aisle?) and to keep an eye out for local goods, I’ve really enjoyed experimenting and learning to make the foods my mom used to make. Sure we might not have bubble tea, although I will say my sister ordered some of those items from Amazon and mastered it–so it is possible!–but we still can satisfy our inner local cravings using the goods we got! 

Let’s hear from you!

Is there a snack or dessert that satisfies your sweet tooth craving? Is there a recipe you tried that really worked for you? Share in the comments below! 

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11 Interesting Things Hawaii Locals Do (That Others Don’t)

11 Interesting Things Hawaii Locals Do (That Others Don’t)

Hawaii Local photo

Hawaii locals are a unique bunch of people. Hawaii locals come from all kinds of backgrounds and ethnicity, not just Hawaiian. I grew up in Hawaii, and my parents are both Hawaiian, so the culture, customs, and etiquette of Hawaii were a part of my everyday life. I actually lived in the mainland until nine years of age, but my parents, Hawaii locals themselves, raised us in the way they’d been raised: we took our shoes off when entering the house, waited politely for the host to eat before digging in, shared food (or didn’t share food if we didn’t have enough for everyone), and so forth.

When we finally moved back to Hawaii, I learned even more from the locals themselves: how to go with the flow, not to stress too much over outward appearances, to be clean, generous, and more. Since moving back to the mainland, I thought it’d be fun to write a list of the funny things Hawaii locals do, as a result of growing up and/or living in the islands.

This article was written for my retired blog but I thought it’d be fun to re-use it here! I hope you enjoy this list and that something here makes you smile!

We wash our hair everyday


And I might just add that we shower everyday too. Since experiencing winters and dry environments in the mainland, I understand why people don’t wash their hair everyday. But growing up in Hawaii, it was a must to wash your hair every. single. day. It was a necessity and maybe just a natural part of growing up on a humid, wet island.

We wash our dishes by hand

When I moved into an apartment in Utah, I was shocked that my roommates used the dishwasher to wash a few mere dishes. Why not just do it by hand if you only have a few plates and cups? When my family did have a dishwasher in our home, I don’t remember using it much. If we did use it, it was usually for after big family events or when we had lots of guests over. 

We wait for the hostess to eat before digging in

Not all locals do this, but I know this is something I’ve learned growing up. You don’t dig into the food until the wife of the head of house takes a bite. This might be something passed down from my Chinese heritage, but I remember this one incident where I went to a party and an aunty got mad at some girls for digging in before she, the hostess, had even gotten food and sat down herself. Yikes! Just a tip for the mainlanders… if you go to a local person’s house for dinner, do yourself a favor and wait til the hostess sits down and eats. I know she’ll say, “Eat, eat, eat!” but use your discernment. I always wait out of respect because the host deserves to eat too!

We take our slippers/shoes off at the door 

I can’t even explain how weird it feels to wear shoes in a house, especially when the house has carpet….

We wear slippers and socks TOGETHER

And speaking of slippers, why not keep your socks on when you wear them? Sure you might have to make your socks look like tabis, but who cares? Slippers and socks are a comfy combination.

We always offer food to visitors

“Are you hungry? No? I’ll make you something…” Locals love food, and it’s shame if we can’t offer you something, even if it’s a glass of juice. If you drop in unexpectedly, we’ll still ask you if you’re interested in eating something. We don’t care if you might be standing at the door and ready to leave. We just love food, and we have to offer some, just in case. Nobody leaves our home hungry. 

We won’t eat something in front of you if we don’t have enough to share

And, speaking of food, if we’ve brought a snack of some sort and you’re with us, we’ll only bring it out if we have enough to share. It’s really rude to eat something in front of another person and not offer. This includes if we’re in big groups. We’ll only buss out the snacks if we know everyone can get a piece. Otherwise, we’ll save our snack and eat it privately later.

We will pack up leftover food for you to take home

Whether it’s a party, a family dinner, or just stopping by, don’t be surprised when we buss out the ziploc bags to package things to go, or just give you the rest of the food. Just take it. We won’t be satisfied unless you do. 

We appreciate food by making noises

And I don’t mean body noises, but I mean “Mmmmmmm…” We love complimenting and appreciating food with words and noises of affirmation like “Mmm…” and “Yum…” and “Ohhhh this is SO ono.” Some locals even dance a little when they eat–not dramatically though, just swaying back and forth–but we like to show our appreciation with noises of approval. Get used to it cause we love food. 🙂 

We flash our headlights to warn other cars of cops up ahead

It’s an unspoken rule (but I guess it is spoken cause I just wrote about it), but on highways or going down busier streets in Hawaii, if someone coming towards you flashes their highlights once at you, it’s not a cause to get mad. In fact, locals are so grateful when this happens, because it means there’s a cop up ahead. Not that we’re speeders, but it’s just us being good neighbors. I’ve never experienced this on the mainland. I did it once and wondered to myself if the oncoming driver knew what that meant. And, tbh, there might be a lot of reasons people might not do it on the mainland, but Hawaii is small enough that we can keep other cars on the lookout. 

We wave a lot when we’re driving

We are so used to sticking our hands out the window and throwing shakas, or waving just to anyone from behind the wheel (whether it’s an incoming car or a pedestrian crossing in front). I always feel weird when I wave to a pedestrian and they look at me like I’m crazy… but hey, gotta keep the aloha spirit alive. And it’s the best when they smile and wave back. 🙂 

It’s so fun to be from Hawaii

There are probably more things that you thought of as you read this. While these differences in lifestyles aren’t bad things, they’re funny to think about. To be honest, locals will adapt to the lifestyle of wherever they live. Just don’t be surprised if any of these things pop around once in a while. Is there something you thought of that Hawaii locals do differently from mainlanders or other cultures/lifestyles? 

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